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Women Who Won’t Stay On the Sidelines: How Female Leaders Are Changing Sports

A Kentucky Derby upset. A female NHL coach. A Super Bowl-winning team owned by a woman. The game is changing—and women are leading the charge.
We dive into the inspiring stories of women breaking barriers in sports leadership and explore why these victories matter far beyond the playing field. From female coaches and team owners to trailblazers rewriting the rules, this conversation is really about something bigger: reclaiming your voice, your ambition, and your place at the table.
Packed with powerful real-life moments, laughter, and a few passionate rants about the patriarchy, this episode is a reminder that every woman who goes first creates new possibilities for the rest of us.
If you're navigating midlife, dreaming bigger, reinventing yourself, or wondering what's still possible for your next chapter, pull up a chair. This one's for you.
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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:Hoplark - Sparkling Hop Tea
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You’re Not Okay...But You’re Going to Be: A Conversation About Grief in Midlife

Grief doesn't just take the person you love—it changes the person you are. 
After losing her mother suddenly and, less than two years later, losing her son, Marie Crews found herself navigating the kind of heartbreak most of us can't imagine. Yet through the fog of loss, she discovered something powerful: healing isn't about "moving on"—it's about learning how to live alongside grief.
In this deeply honest conversation, Marie joins Karen and Lisa to share her journey through profound loss, the isolation that often accompanies grief, the surprising impact of grief brain fog, and the mindset shifts that helped her put one foot in front of the other when life felt impossible.
If you're grieving the loss of a loved one, supporting someone through loss, or navigating one of life's seasons of heartbreak and transition, this episode offers comfort, perspective, and a reminder that you're not alone.
Topics include grief, child loss, loss of a parent, healing after loss, self-compassion, resilience, and finding your way forward in midlife.
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🎙️Guest:Marie Crews
🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:
Prosecco Mionetto Olipop Crisp Apple Probiotic Soda
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Why Midlife Feels Lonely Even When You Have Friends

You did everything "right"—built a life you love, raised the kids, made the big changes, maybe even reinvented yourself. So why does midlife still feel lonely sometimes?
Karen and Lisa dive into the surprising difference between friendship and community, and why so many women over 40 find themselves craving deeper connection after divorce, empty nesting, relocation, career shifts, or simply outgrowing old roles. Through candid stories about rebuilding community, navigating loneliness, and pushing beyond comfort zones, they explore what it really takes to find your people in this season of life.
If you've ever wondered why making friends after 50 feels harder than it should, or found yourself asking, "Where do I belong now?" this conversation will leave you feeling seen, understood, and inspired to create meaningful connection on your own terms.
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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:
Simply Pop Pineapple Mango Soda - listener supplied! (Shot of vodka was not ☺️)
Arbonne Mango Peach Energy FizzLisa’s Affiliate Link with Arbonne - Pure, Safe, Beneficial nutrition, skincare, body care, and make-up free from 2000 banned chemicalshttps://www.arbonne.com/us/en/arb/LisaCorricelloMcdowell/?login=trueEmail me for 35-45% off here.
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Midlife Fashion: How to Find Your Style After 40

Trying to squeeze into old jeans while quietly grieving the woman you used to be? Same. This honest, funny, and deeply relatable conversation about midlife fashion dives into what happens when your body changes, your lifestyle shifts, and suddenly nothing in your closet feels like you anymore.
Karen and Lisa are joined by fashion-loving educator Kate LaPlaunt, who brings warmth, humor, and zero judgment to the conversation. Together, they unpack the pressure women over 40 feel around aging, style, confidence, and “fashion rules” — while sharing real-life stories about closet crises, thrift-store wins, stilettos on icy Alaska sidewalks, changing bodies, and finally giving themselves permission to wear what makes them feel good.
This episode is for any listener navigating midlife reinvention, menopause body changes, empty nesting, confidence shifts, or the feeling that they’ve somehow lost their style along the way.
Because midlife fashion isn’t about dressing younger. It’s about dressing like yourself again.
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🎙️Guest:Kate La Plaunt
🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:Kevita Probiotic Refresher in TangerineNaked Swim Sparkling Green Tea and Red Fruits Glorious Herbal TeaSan Pelligrino Selzer
What Kate wished she was drinking:Pear Martini French 75 - Champagne, Gin, Lemon, Simple Syrup
 
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100 Episodes Later: What Midlife Women Learn When They Show Up Messy

Karen and Lisa are celebrating 100 episodes of Drinks With the Girls — and the truth behind the milestone is way messier, funnier, and more emotional than anyone sees on social media. From recording through grief, burnout, parenting chaos, tech disasters, and “life lifing,” they share the real story of what it takes to keep showing up in midlife when everything feels hard.
This conversation is a love letter to women over 40 who are reinventing themselves, building something new, healing, setting boundaries, and learning that consistency matters more than perfection. With hilarious behind-the-scenes podcast moments, honest reflections on friendship, and the unfiltered reality of doing life together, Karen and Lisa prove you do not need to have it all figured out to create something meaningful.
If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s too late, too messy, or too scary to start — this episode is for you.
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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:Diet Squirt with VodkaSparkle Hops - Pelican Brewery
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Reclaiming Midlife: Purpose, Identity & the Power to Choose

Somewhere between raising kids, managing careers, caregiving, and holding everyone else together… a lot of women wake up in midlife wondering: Who am I now?
Karen and Lisa unpack the identity shifts nobody prepares women for after 40 — the quiet grief of outgrowing old roles, the pressure to stay “relevant,” and the exhausting feeling of disappearing inside everyone else’s needs. Through raw conversation, humor, honesty, and deeply relatable moments, they explore what it really means to rediscover yourself after years of survival mode.
From body image and aging to emotional burnout and reinvention, this conversation is for women who feel disconnected from themselves, stuck in transition, or ready to reclaim parts of themselves they thought were gone forever.
If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, I don’t even know who I am anymore, this one will hit home.
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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:Pierre’s Paloma Green Cheek SeltzerSparkle Hops - Pelican Brewery
Karen's Reclamation Lounge
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If Our Moms Could See Us Now: A Mother’s Day Conversation About Love, Loss, and Growth

They were our anchors… and somehow, we’re learning how to stand on our own.
This Mother’s Day conversation is honest, funny, and unexpectedly healing—about the women who raised us, the relationships that shaped us, and the versions of ourselves we’ve grown into along the way. Lisa and Karen share what it’s like to move from daughter to friend, to grieve what was, and to finally understand the lessons that didn’t make sense back then.
There are moments that will make you laugh (like the things our moms definitely didn’t want to know) and moments that hit deep—like saving a voice recording you didn’t know you’d one day treasure, or realizing strength showed up when you didn’t have a choice.
This episode isn’t just about loss—it’s about growth, perspective, and the quiet ways our moms are still part of who we are today. Karen brings the lens of losing her mom young and learning life without her, while Lisa shares what it means to reprocess a relationship and find a deeper, more honest connection over time. Together, they guide a conversation that feels like sitting down with women who truly get it.
🎧 This one is for:
Women in midlife navigating complicated or evolving relationships with their moms
Anyone missing their mom (especially around Mother’s Day)
Daughters becoming mothers—and seeing everything differently
Women doing the work to heal, reflect, and move forward
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “I get it now, Mom”… this conversation will stay with you.
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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:
Basic Beech Pacifico Beer with LimeFentiman's Pink Ginger
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The Toxic Life of an Educator: Why Midlife Women Are Burning Out Faster Than Ever

The word was “clusterf*ck”… and honestly? It only gets more real from there.
This is the conversation every educator—and every midlife woman holding it all together—has been having behind closed doors.
Karen and Lisa sit down with returning guest Amanda to pull back the curtain on the toxic reality of education today—where passion collides with burnout, boundaries disappear, and the job that once felt like a calling starts to feel unsustainable. From the shocking shift in what schools are dealing with now versus 20 years ago, to the emotional toll of being “always on,” this episode doesn’t sugarcoat a thing.
You’ll hear raw, unfiltered moments about:
The pressure of being available 24/7
Why “summers off” is one of the biggest myths out there
How leadership can make—or completely break—the experience
The quiet grief of loving a career that’s slowly draining you
But this isn’t just about what’s broken. Amanda brings powerful insight as a leader and coach, helping reframe what’s possible when we start telling the truth about burnout, boundaries, and what we actually need to feel supported again.
If you’re a teacher, former educator, or a midlife woman questioning why the life you built suddenly feels so heavy… this one will hit home.
Because sometimes the bravest thing you can do is admit: this isn’t working anymore—and start asking what might. 🍸
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🎙️Guest: Amanda Yountshttps://linktr.ee/amandayounts@midlifecatalyst
 
🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:
Wild Wonder Pineapple Paradise PREBIOTIC + PROBIOTIC SPARKLING DRINKArnold Palmer (Iced Tea/Lemonade)Bundaberg Ginger BeerApparently, it’s Australian, not German….oopsLime Bubly
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Earth Day: Taking Care of the Earth While Taking Care of Yourself

Ever feel like saving the planet is just… too much?
Between the plastic at the dentist, the endless Amazon boxes, and the constant noise of “do more,” it’s easy to slip into that quiet midlife question: does anything I do even matter?
In this honest and often hilarious Earth Day conversation, Karen and Lisa  unpack the overwhelm, the guilt, and the small but meaningful ways we can reconnect—with the planet and with ourselves. From surfing with dolphins to gardening in the Pacific Northwest, from hummingbird nests to wildfire anxiety, they share real-life moments that remind us this isn’t about perfection—it’s about intention.
Along the way, they explore something deeper: how women in midlife are exhausted from taking care of everyone else—and what Mother Earth can teach us about rest, cycles, and starting again.
If you’ve ever felt burned out, disconnected, or unsure where to even begin when it comes to sustainability, this conversation will meet you right where you are—and gently nudge you forward.
✨ This episode is for listeners navigating midlife, craving a slower pace, and looking for simple, doable ways to care for the planet without losing themselves in the process.
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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:Pierre's Paloma Fizzy Paloma-Style Hard Seltzer
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Unpacking Trauma in Midlife, Pt 3 with Guests Alyssa Scarano and Alex Casillas

Your body is reacting… and you don’t even know why. One text, one look, one moment—and suddenly you’re spiraling, shutting down, or ready to run.
Karen and Lisa get real about those “where did that come from?” reactions in relationships—and the answer might be trauma. The kind that quietly shapes how we love, communicate, trust, and show up… especially in midlife.
With trauma therapists Alex and Alyssa guiding the conversation, this episode connects the dots between your past and your present patterns—why conflict feels unsafe, why certain relationships feel familiar (even when they’re not healthy), and how your nervous system is calling the shots more than you think.
From a powerful moment of physically shaking after a simple text to the realization that “I’ve been doing this forever,” this conversation brings those invisible patterns into the light—and reminds you that you’re not broken, you’re responding.
If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the same relationship dynamics, avoiding conflict, people-pleasing, or wondering why you react the way you do—this episode is for you.
Because healing isn’t about fixing yourself… it’s about finally understanding yourself.
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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:Wild Wonder Prebiotic + Probiotic Sparkling Drink - Guava Rose FlavorSimply Pop Prebiotic Soda - Pineapple Mango FlavorHio Organic Peach Mango Social Tonic
🎙️Guests: Alyssa ScaranoCollective Therapy
Alex CasillasCon Corazon Mental Health Services
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